The Graduating Homeless; Compensatory Dreams

Sometimes a dream may appear negative when you first       express what you’ve  experienced such as I am in a    gymnasium with homeless people . . . exactly the  words    I spoke into my recorder the other morning. But as I  continued to listen to the recording I was able to accept  the dream as encouraging rather than telling  me yet again my raging issue is my finances. Well, “consciously” I suppose it is, but  was the unconscious kindly compensating for this unbalanced opinion?

In this dream I was giving out blankets to people as we co-operated with each other   to make room for everyone to sleep in the gym comfortably. I recorded We are all      smiling and helping one another. Everyone appears to  have a job and everyone is working together to be of  assistance to anyone who needs something. I could see  myself greeting and checking in with people as I walked


Then a scene change and a new element entered the dream. I am talking to the people in charge. We are preparing for graduation. It will be a great party. I have a really pretty skirt to wear later. Maybe this was an emergency shelter after a hurricane and not home to the homeless?  No matter. There would be a graduation!  A reason to celebrate, to move on to a new phase of life. Never mind that it’s been a hundred years since my last graduation . . .  Clothing in a dream often has to do with persona and attitude, how one presents oneself. New clothes can show social or economic development. My son is here. He’s smiling too .  . . it may be a rehearsal. Already, people are festive; I hear music.

So, okay, I thought later. Yes, there’s The Bigtop Tarp and I’m in a crowd of people wearing long, raggedy raincoats but we’re all happy waiting for the Big Show. Even my ego state in the dream is happy. True, it’s quite possible to look at a dream and see how the ego has misread the situation. (Dude, you’re in a gym with homeless people!) But the prevalent feeling is joyful, excited, anticipatory; this is the feeling I awoke with. And had there been nothing else in the dream, the sorry state of things would be something to consider.

The little (or not so little) addition of my son’s appearance was another validation for me that the dream was auspicious. In “real” life, my son in his own words said to me not too long ago that he is having the best year of his life. Happily married, but he is also passionate about a new direction in his financial life. Whenever I see him in a dream, which is fairly frequent, I need to remind myself my dream-son represents an aspect of myself. Our children usually stand as symbols for our plans, ideas and projects, so in this case, his presence bodes well. I have several writing projects in the works.

It’s always important to note the ego’s point of view and in the inter-active dream process of image work, I would make certain this dreamer described and felt the sense of “homelessness” completely before moving to the ego alternates, or ego-alien, my son being one of these, the crowd of homeless representing a huge energy as well. But they’re happy homeless. And those people in charge, also alien to my ego– they know that we’re graduating. All of these viewpoints stand for the many subjectivities in my psyche.  

The unconscious offers up gifts, or sometimes . . .  just  compensates for excessive conscious worries and tries to  bring balance. And dreams do exaggerate. Still, I’m  gratefulfor the  twists in this dream and I look forward to  exchanging my gymnasium blanket for a mortar-board!


  • By online cna classes, May 27, 2010 @ 7:33 pm

    This is such a great resource that you are providing and you give it away for free. I enjoy seeing websites that understand the value of providing a prime resource for free. I truly loved reading your post. Thanks!

  • By Deborah, May 28, 2010 @ 11:30 am

    Thank you! You might like my memoir as it has lots on dreams. I appreciate your taking the time to comment!

  • By Deborah, June 1, 2010 @ 11:01 pm

    By Lacy Hutton, May 29, 2010 @ 8:02 am

    Haha I’m actually the only comment to this awesome article?!

    By Elmer Abrams, May 29, 2010 @ 11:13 pm

    If only I had a penny for every time I came here! Superb read!

    By Clement Wilkinson, May 30, 2010 @ 7:09 am’s done it once more! Incredible read.

    By Deborah, May 30, 2010 @ 10:01 am

    Please join my mailing list by downloading the article “8 tips on dream recall” on the main page of the site under Dream Image Work! Where do you live? I do process people’s dreams over the phone if you’ve ever got one you’re curious about.
    Thanks for your comment!

    By Deborah, May 30, 2010 @ 10:02 am

    Thank you! If you dream, I can help process. Glad you enjoyed my essay!

  • By Amy, June 4, 2010 @ 6:38 am

    Thank you! You might like my memoir as it has lots on dreams. I appreciate your taking the time to comment!

  • By WP Themes, June 11, 2010 @ 2:13 pm

    Nice brief and this enter helped me alot in my college assignement. Say thank you you as your information.

  • By WP Themes, July 12, 2010 @ 5:44 am

    Genial post and this post helped me alot in my college assignement. Gratefulness you on your information.

  • By Deborah, July 23, 2010 @ 7:10 pm

    How sweet of you. But no, I don’t have such a thing! You could purchase a book or my C.D., that would be nice.
    The memoir has a lot of great information on the coming era.

  • By Barbra, November 12, 2010 @ 10:39 pm

    As usual, your writing is beautiful, Deborah, and having lost my own mother in a somewhat similar fashion last year, I can relate to your words. I look forward to your next book!

Other Links to this Post

RSS feed for comments on this post. TrackBack URI

Leave a comment

WordPress Themes